KARNAL/GURGAON: Amid dancing, feasting and photoshoots, Karnal boy Lt Vinay Narwal and Gurgaon girl Himanshi got married in Mussoorie on April 16. Six days later, a picture of a dazed Himanshi slumped next to her husband’s body on a verdant meadow lined with pine trees in Pahalgam became the image of terrorism’s devastating fallout.

A file photo of Narwal with his grandfather (Credit: TNN)

And while the image cannoned around news and social media on April 22 afternoon after terrorists gunned down 26 tourists, among them the 26-year-old Navyman, the sound of celebrations from the couple’s destination wedding still echoed in Karnal as Narwal’s mother visited neighbours to distribute sweets.
The family came to know only in the evening, and a crushing sorrow drowned everything out. “Everyone in the Narwal household was so happy after the wedding,” Naresh Bansal, a neighbour who was in tears, told TOI on Wednesday. “They were even planning a ‘Mata ka Jagran’ next month,” he added.
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Narwal and Himanshi were not even supposed to be there. The duo had a European honeymoon in mind, in the Swiss Alps, but decided on Kashmir when the visas did not come through on time.
“I was eating bhel puri with my husband when a man suddenly came and said he’s not Muslim… then shot him,” a stunned Himanshi is heard saying in one of the many videos from the attack site, which is en route to a place locally known as ‘mini-Switzerland’, circulating online.
Married In Mussoorie, Became Face Of Devastation In Kashmir Six Days Later
In a casket draped in the Tricolour, the body of Narwal – who would have turned 27 on May 1 – was flown to Delhi and then taken by road to Karnal on Wednesday. His parents and younger sister had flown to Srinagar to bring his body back.
According to initial reports, Narwal was shot in the chest, neck and left arm.
“I pray that his soul is in peace, and he has the best time wherever he is… we should all be proud of him in every way,” were all the words Himanshi could muster as she embraced the coffin and cried before it was taken for the last rites, accompanied by slogans of “Hindustan zindabad, Pakistan murdabad” from the large crowd that had turned up to express condolences.
Narwal and Himanshi, a PhD scholar who teaches in Gurgaon, got engaged two months ago after their families fixed the match. Himanshi’s father Sunil Kumar is an excise and taxation officer. Narwal’s father Rajesh is a superintendent in the GST department.
An engineering graduate, Narwal wanted to join the armed forces since school but couldn’t crack the combined defence services (CDS) exam back then. After getting his bachelor’s degree from a Sonipat college, he prepared for SSB (service selection board) and was chosen to join the Navy three years ago.
Posted at the Southern Naval Command in Kochi, he took leave from March 28 for the wedding, his family members at their Sector 7 house in Karnal city said. The wedding celebrations began with a ring ceremony on April 4, culminating in the Mussoorie wedding.
The couple left for J&K on April 21 two days after the reception in Karnal on April 19, catching a flight from Delhi’s IGI after a lunch stopover at Himanshi’s house in Gurgaon’s Sector 47. After Pahalgam, the newlyweds had planned to go to Vaishno Devi temple in Jammu. They were supposed to return to Karnal by May 1. “We had planned a big party on his return from the honeymoon,” said Amit, a relative. On May 3, the couple was to leave for Kochi, where they had booked a resthouse.
Narwal’s grandfather Hawa Singh, who retired from Haryana Police, said on Wednesday the Prime Minister should teach terrorists a lesson. “Had the attackers not been carrying guns, my grandson would have taken on at least 3-4 of them,” he said. Raghbir Singh, Narwal’s granduncle, said the family was informed by the SHO of Madhuban police station and by the SP office Karnal. Bhusali, the village the family is from, was in deep shock. Many had celebrated Narwal’s wedding at a resort on Kunjpura road in Karnal.
The Indian Navy, in a post on its official X account, said on Wednesday that the force and naval chief Admiral Dinesh K Tripathi were “shocked” and “saddened by the tragic loss of Lt Vinay Narwal who fell to the dastardly terror attack in Pahalgam”. “We extend our heartfelt condolences to his family during this moment of unimaginable grief,” the post read.
Himanshi’s family is originally from Jhajjar but settled in Gurgaon two decades ago. Himanshi is the elder of two siblings. Her younger brother is in college. Narwal’s sister Srishti is preparing for the civil services in Delhi. Vikrant, a neighbour, said Himanshi’s father was very social and an active resident of the sector. “He takes initiatives for cleanliness and plants trees across the sector,” said Vikrant, adding the neighbourhood shared the family’s grief.
Haryana CM Nayab Singh Saini, who was in Gurgaon on Wednesday, called the terrorist attack on tourists cowardly. “My condolences are with the bereaved families in this time of sorrow. Govt stands fully with the families who are grieving,” said the CM. Saini spoke to Hawa Singh through a video call and assured the family that those responsible will be punished. In the evening, he visited the family in Karnal. “Today, I have lost my grandson, tomorrow it can be someone else,” Singh told the CM.
Narwal’s uncle Surjeet Narwal said, “I request PM Modi to shut petty missions, find those terrorists, kill each one of them in the same manner they killed our people. The PM should find them and destroy them.” Calling Narwal a true gentleman, he said the officer would always touch his feet when he met him. “We celebrated his wedding merely a week ago and now we are forced to make arrangements for his funeral,” he said.
Vinay’s colleagues remembered him as a cheerful officer. “He was deeply committed to his duties,” a Navy officer said.